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Saturday, August 21, 2010

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Friday, August 13, 2010

10 Habits and Beliefs to Un-Learn

Breaking through constricting barriers has to first start with you. As we travel through this world and this life, we adapt habits, behaviors and beliefs that actually inhibit our ability to go forth as a conqueror. It is your innate God given ability to be victorious over your pursuit. Here are 10 myths that have structured your habits and beliefs you must Un-Learn in order to awaken the victorious mountain mover within. This is the time for you to Take Your Success By Force!

Myth 1: Problems are not good and should be avoided

Truth 1: Problems strengthen you and elevate you. Without a problem you would never have an opportunity to gain wisdom and experience. In my "Remove The Weakest Link workshop" I educate you on the principles of effective and efficient management of conflicts. Once you position your mindset to actually gain instead of loose in the midst of a stressful situation or problem, the transition from uncontrolled problem to controlled circumstance evolves.

Myth 2: If I'm not smiling then life is not good and I'm not happy

Truth 2: The feeling of happiness is not related to a situations or the act of smiling. Happiness is an inner joy and peace. In my book Get Grounded; Stay Grounded I address the balance of self-joy, self-worth and self-love in chapter 4

Myth 3:My past damages, pains and errors will always hold me down

Truth 3: Your past can only damage your future if you allow it to. "The 80/20 Theory" I educate on is simple and states 80% of people are waiting for and expecting you to fail. But 20 % of people are waiting for and expecting you to achieve and succeed. Channel your energy and focus on the greatest few because it is them that need you to be victorious

Myth 4: Achieving success means always working hard and not enjoying life or your accomplishments

Truth 4: Prepare to have fun achieving success. You will reach your desired point much quicker. Think of yourself playing your favorite arcade game; mine is Pac-Man or Woman. You work hard not to be eaten by the little goblin, the energy is high, your moving, your moving and then BAM! You get eaten. But yet, the game isn't over you still have more to do. So what do you do? You laugh and play again until you finish the course. Achieving success is no different.

Myth 5: If you tried something and didn't accomplish the goal then you've failed.

Truth 5: Success is ultimately derived out of many failed attempts converted into proficient execution. The key thing to remember is never attempting is failing and never planning is failing. In the Get Grounded; Stay Grounded book in chapter 3 prosperity and productivity is discussed in depth. Then Chapter 4 focuses on how to address and overcome the emotions of failure and giving up.

Myth 6: My decision to do or not to do something is based on what people say or think about me

Truth 6: Regardless of your decision good or bad, people will always find something negative to point out before pointing out the positive. So Live Life according to God and Not to man! I myself use to struggle with the crippling feeling of people bondage. Wanting to make sure everything I did and said was pleasing to everyone. I found out this is impossible. Learn to understand who you are, whose you are and what you've been positioned to do.

Myth 7: Your external appearance will always get you the best of the best

Truth 7: People with only external beauty are usually seen for what they can give and not for the value they're worth. People that have internal beauty are usually seen for their value and henceforth extended the deals and opportunities free of unfavorable agendas. Once you strengthen your internal beauty, your external beauty is inevitable. Just being looked at and never valued is not rewarding to the soul.

Myth 8: Money will make life perfect and free of stress and sadness

Truth 8: Yes, a lack of money always places stress on the lives of people that are in desperate need of help. If we explore this deeper we'll find 95% of people that suffer the "Lack of Money Syndrome" are those who have stretched their hands and pockets into expenses that were beyond their reach. Forcing them into a not enough state. What I'm addressing here is the concept that money becomes your basis for a perfect life. Even when money shows up in abundance, if your happiness was never built on the peace and joy of God you will still see every other imperfect area in the rest of your world. Money only numbs the pain and the reality, it can never fix it.

Myth 9: The idea of loosing something or someone is too frightening so I won't let go

Truth 9: Until you free yourself from the bondage of having to be attached to things and people, you'll live in fear for the rest of your life. The only thing to be bound to is God and his word. Once you bind yourself to the things of the world, your life will always ride the emotional roller coaster because when things are up, then you are up and when things are down, so are you. But God is always consistent!

Myth 10: Learning has an expiration age and time

Truth 10: Consistently increasing in knowledge and applying learned skills, intelligence and abilities will always give you a winning hand. Learning is integral to our mental well-being. "With all thy getting get understanding Proverbs 4:7". The moment you retire your committed drive to learn new things is the moment you consent to be stagnant.

There you go! Your 10 myths of habits and beliefs have officially been Un-Learned. Remember it has to start with you first. I pray this has been a blessing to you, share with others, leave a comment and become a noted follower of the blog "Taking Success By Force".

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Natasha Davis-Bowen is an Empowerment Speaker, Business Consultant and Success Coach who specializes in Strategy & Execution to Transform Your Vision Into Reality. Visit her on www.VisionaryPeopleArise.com